You may have found some of your friends/colleagues/family members are low in self-confidence, they wish to do something in their lives but a negative internal voice holding them back. Low self-confidence kills us from within, it keeps us down, demotivates us, keeps us confused even if acting on something, doesn’t let us do things freely and all these don’t let us achieve what we want.
But self-confidence can be developed from any point with consistent practice, if you know someone struggling with it, and wish to help them then you should. But how would you know that someone is facing this issue? You may have some knowledge about it but here going to list out signs that people face while dealing with low self-confidence.
They change their goals & plans often as they don’t believe they will succeed in doing this. They keep switching over ideas from time to time.
They will keep asking their friends/colleagues for approval for the things they are going to do as they are confused. Asking sometimes is not bad as we want to take feedback from others but asking too many times shows confusion.
They do the negative self-talk, as well as the same with their friends/colleagues. Self-doubt & self-criticism are common among such people.
They are afraid to fail, it’s hard for them to digest failures. They avoid taking risks thinking they may fail and end up losing the game.
If you ask them about something they are pursuing, you will find they are not clear in their thoughts, they give you some random answers that don’t make sense.
They care more about society & people’s judgment, constantly thinking about what their family, society, friends, and colleagues will think if they fail.
They don’t have patience, and if they don’t get results in a short time, they become impatient, start doubting themselves, question their decision, and get into panic mode when things take time.
